In 2003, Sandra Millers Younger was living in her dream house in the country near San Diego. In just moments, her dream was shattered when, in the blink of an eye, they lost their home, 12 neighbors and nearly their own lives from a catastrophic wildfire. They drove through darkness, smoke and flames to escape.
For the next two years, the family focused on rebuilding their home and reinventing their lives. Through that process, Sandra discovered a new calling and career as an author, speaker, storyteller and resilience mentor.
It took Sandra 10 years to write her book, The Fire Outside My Window: A Survivor Tells the True Story of California’s Epic Cedar Fire. The book has been praised by readers and adopted as a training text by top-level emergency professionals.
During her research, seeing those affected by the fire self select as either victims or survivors, she realized we can choose our story moving forward from disaster. She wondered what else we can do to support and accelerate what she calls “the comeback journey,” which boiled down to five powerful commonsense practices proven to build resilience like a muscle, enabling us to transform disaster into opportunity and even loss into legacy. She calls those steps The ComeBACK Formula™.
Sandra shares The ComeBACK Formula™ with disaster survivors, emergency professionals and other mission-centered leaders as an international speaker, workshop leader and media guest. She has appeared on ABC, CBS, PBS, CBC, Fox, NBC Dateline and numerous podcasts.
Currently working to secure sponsors, Sandra would like to print and distribute the ComeBACK Formula™ workbook to all interested survivors of California’s recent fires and mudslides. Her vision is twofold: We have to erase the stigma against our emergency professionals admitting and seeking help in the wake of traumatic work experiences. We have to “make it OK to ask for help.” And we need to add effective, long-term resources for emotional recovery to comprehensive, post-disaster community recovery plans.
TUNE IN to hear Sandra discuss with Mary and Richard disasters and the key to coming back from disaster .
In This Episode
The kids were launched and they found a beautiful house out in the country on a hillside in San DiegoSeven months later, she and her husband woke up to the site of the flames outside their windowThey grabbed the animals, some photos, threw it all into a laundry basket and they took off in the closest carThe escape down the mountain with the bobcat leading the wayShe sent out to write a book about the experienceYou can come back from such disasterYou learn that you are not your stuffShe now stages things differently in order to evacuate quicklyWhen you label someone a victim it implies weaknessWe can choose our story going forwardThe ComeBACK Formula – 5 steps to build resilienceWe need hope in our lives